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Anatomy of a Marriage by Sue Wighton

The thing is: you saw her and decided she was the one. And the feeling was oh so reciprocated. How fortunate you were to find each other. I imagine this serendipitous synchronicity can only happen when you both possess the clarity and fearlessness and yes, the splendid bodies of youth. Maybe there’s a kind of blindness too where beauty and lust intersect, and your delight in each other overshadows everything. So begins the adventure.

Many years of happy marriage, learning each other’s ways, exploring each other’s bodies, sharing pleasures and troubles, loving and sometimes loathing, hurting, forgiving and healing, each one giving and taking from the other.

Life’s events become the matters of marriage … the triumphs and the heartaches, confidences and soft laughs shared in tangled sheets, the comings and goings of children, joys, disappointments, health and sickness … over time all of these matters seal the sacred covenant both of you made all those years ago, for better or for worse.

Your loyalty to each other and to the promise you made protects you against the inevitable temptations that come your way. And still, again, you both choose each other. Time passes and brings with it the gentle ease of a loving familiarity and a kind of happy inertia … a feeling of home. You are witnesses to each other’s lives.

And through a gradual, mutual tender aging, your love for each other changes and endures … becoming ever stronger and unwavering, despite or perhaps because of the challenges you’ve faced together. As time wears away the edges of both, and familiarity and knowing softens and blurs you together, he still sees the confident young woman, her natural youthful beauty which he alone could see, and the heat of her. She remembers the fearless, hard-bodied young man, his flashing smile and his vitality.

And then there’s the laughter you share. This is the spark that illuminates all enduring friendships. Playfulness and humour, and the shorthand that develops must be one of the greatest gifts and the shining armour of any longterm relationship. And these memories become all the sweeter with the passing of the years, allowing both to accept the physical changes and the disappointments time inevitably brings. The memories are woven so deeply into the fabric of the life you built together. The youthful passion is the warp and the shared dreams, and yes, the disappointments are the weft.

Time weaves the threads and makes the fabric of your bond strong. Unbreakable. There are many kinds of love, it’s true. But this is the kind of love that can never be replicated.

A Word From The Bribie Dragons

“We have much to celebrate on International Women’s Day and today, some of us enjoyed a lovely lunch hosted by the Zonta Club of Caboolture at the North Leagues and Services Club at Kallangur. These amazing women support with their fundraising efforts, a number of different local organisations, including ourselves.

We have never forgotten 15 years ago the purchase of our original boat, “Spirit of Bribie”, by Zonta and another donation a few years later, which helped us acquire our ten-seater, “Little Spirit”. We look forward to supporting them again, as in past years, and in the future, as they did us. Thank you, Zonta,” Leonie Dyer

Two of us attended the IWD Breakfast at Pacific Harbour with the Bribie VIEW Club.

A hearty breakfast was followed by an inspiring guest speaker, who traced her steps in life’s journey. She, who had little parental encouragement for education, and yet, sustained by her supportive husband, studied for her HSC as a young mother.

Subsequent to tragically becoming a widow, she harnessed her fears and emotions and focussed energetically on continuing to mentor others in her role as an ordained Anglican minister, whilst lecturing in theology and teaching. What a remarkable woman! One who never stopped dreaming, and who exemplifies hard work, dedication, resilience, and wisdom.

As Bribie Dragons, we always welcome Survivors of Breast Cancer, their supporters and friends who wish to enjoy the uplifting experience and exercise of dragon boating, in an inclusive environment. For further information, contact Maree at 0405550969

5 Ways to Feel Young and Confident in Your 40’s

Feeling young and confident in your 40s can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to be. If you’re feeling less upbeat about life than you used to be, you’re not alone. It’s a natural part of life’s journey. But there are several things you can do to feel young and confident again — and they don’t require expensive surgery or costly cosmetic procedures. Here are some ways to feel young and confident in your 40s:

1 EMBRACE YOUR INNER CHILD

Your 20s were probably all about living in the moment and having fun, but now that you’re older, it’s time to settle down and think about what matters. It doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun, though! You might be surprised by how much fun you can have as an adult playing with toys, getting your nails done, and going to the circus. This could be anything from choosing a top with a cartoon character on it or wearing jeans and trainers instead of smart trousers and heels. Look for opportunities to learn new skills or try something new that makes you feel good about yourself. For example, if yoga is something you’ve always wanted to try but never got around to, why not give it a try now? Or if something has been on your bucket list for years, like skydiving or bungee jumping, don’t wait any longer — do it! But remember, not every idea works for everyone. Having a sense of humour is essential when trying new things, especially if they don’t work out in the end!

2 GET A FACELIFT

A mini facelift involves lifting sagging skin around the eyes, cheeks, and jawline without going under a general anaesthetic. It’s a procedure that can be done in just one hour and requires minimal recovery time and downtime compared with traditional facelifts. The results are subtle but effective —the kind of subtle change that makes you look younger without anyone knowing what you’ve done. It lifts the skin around your eyes and smoothes out lines. You’ll regain a youthful appearance by tightening the muscles under your eyes and removing excess fat deposits. The procedure is also less expensive than traditional surgery because it doesn’t require full anaesthesia or incisions along the jawline.

3 ADD VOLUME TO THINNING HAIR

Hair loss can occur in women of any age, but it’s no secret that hair loss is common among women in their 40s. But there are things you can do to slow down or even stop it before it becomes noticeable. Hair loss in this age group is also called female pattern baldness (FPB). FPB is genetic, so if it runs in your family, you’ll likely lose some of your hair during menopause or after childbirth. Try a volumizing shampoo or conditioner that contains ingredients like wheat protein or keratin — both add volume by coating each strand in moisture, so it stands straighter and fluffier. If you notice excessive shedding or thinning patches in your hairline or crown area, talk with your doctor about treatments that may help prevent further hair loss or slow down its rate

4 TAKE UP A NEW HOBBY AND GO ON ADVENTURES

4 TAKE UP A NEW HOBBY AND GO ON ADVENTURES If you find yourself bored with your current interests, consider trying something new to keep you interested and engaged. For example, if you’ve worked for the same company for years, it’s easy to feel stuck in the same old routine. Take some time to explore your interests — whether learning a new language or taking up a new sport or hobby — and see where it takes you. Also, nothing can make you feel younger than travelling to new places with friends or spending quality time with loved ones who share similar interests as yours. Ensure these trips are planned well in advance, so they don’t become too stressful and hectic.

5 STAY ACTIVE

The best way to feel young is to be active. Physical activity can help you look and feel younger. And it’s not just about your physical appearance; it’s also about your mental well-being. Physical activity has been shown to improve mood, which in turn can help improve confidence. So, if you’re feeling a little blue and are searching for the fountain of youth, it might be time to get active! There are plenty of ways to stay active as an adult. You don’t have to join a gym or sign up for an expensive yoga class — even simple things like walking more and standing up when talking on the phone can make a difference.

There’s no magic age to achieve happiness and self-confidence. As long as you feel happy and confident, you don’t need to worry about what others think of your age. Do what makes you happy and take care of yourself well.

The Bribie Islander Gloss Magazine March 24, 2023 Issue 187

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The Bribie Islander Gloss Magazine February 24, 2023 Issue 185

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The Sunshine Coast Hinterland: What to See & Do

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Time to hit the road for a day trip and get away from the hustle and bustle of the city experience. Head west to Sunshine Coast Hinterland Australia and experience the lush green bliss is a world-class tourist destination for adventure.

It’s a unique region with quaint country towns full of cafes, antique stores, quaint country towns, and diverse land attractions waiting to be explored.

Aside from that, there are also fine dining options and bountiful markets where you can grab and stock up on local produce and taste mouth-quenching products.

It’s fair to say that the beach can hog the spotlight when it comes to the Sunshine Coast. Although Hinterland is low on beaches, it is boastful of its refreshing Sunshine Coast waterfalls and swimming holes.

Go chasing waterfalls at the hinterland and capture amazing views, and experience amazing moments in your Sunshine Coast itinerary.

These attractions are another way to cool off after your countryside adventures. Let’s explore some awesome places to visit and bucket list things to do in the Sunshine Coast hinterland.

Best places to visit and things to do in the Sunshine Coast Hinterland

1. Australia zoo

2. Maleny botanic gardens

3. Blackall Range

4. Glasshouse mountains

5 . Eumundi Markets

6. Kondalilla Falls

7. Mapleton Falls

8. Rainforest discovery center

9.Maleny Cheese

10.Brouhaha Brewery

11.Kenilworth dairies

12.Kenilworth Country Bakery

13.Monica’s Maleny

14.Ginger Factory

15.Big Pineapple

16.Long Apron

Australia zoo

The Australia Zoo is located in the state of Queensland and is only a short drive from the center of Brisbane. It was founded by the Irwin family and made famous by the late “Crocodile Hunter” Steve Irwin in his shows.

The zoo can give you the unforgettable animal experience of your lifetime .Get up close with approximately 1200 animals including Australian natives such as Kangaroos, Dingoes, Koalas, and Wombats.

A fantastic moment to tour, learn and enjoy all at the same time.

Maleny botanic gardens and bird world

Maleny Botanic Gardens & Bird World is a breathtaking place filled with vibrant plants and exotic birds. Overlooking the iconic Glass House Mountains.

The Maleny botanic garden and bird world house over 700 birds. These birds fly freely over the area, adding to the unique and magical experience you can encounter.

Travel along the art trail Take a trip from Montville to Maleny and discover a wealth of exceptional artists and art along the Hinterland Art Trail.

Blackall Range

The Blackall Ranges situated in the Sunshine Coast Hinterland, southeast of Maleny, offers attractive walks through the rainforest. The Blackall Ranges are known for their lovely scenery through the lush green rolling hills and picturesque views of landscapes.

The mountain is home to a diverse range of flora and fauna, which makes it a perfect tour for nature lovers.

Additionally, there are also quaint towns, rainforests, waterfalls, and a lot of cafes and restaurants to visit over the place.

This is a Sunshine Coast Hinterland Great Walk experience you should not miss.

Glasshouse mountains

The Glass House Mountains are a distinct tourist spot for adventurers. Many of the peaks are listed on Queensland and National Heritage Register as a landscape of national significance.

The Mountain was named by Lieutenant James Cook during his journey along Australia’s eastern coastline.

It is composed of 13 volcanic hills and these volcanic plugs were born millions of years ago, which formed the glass-like structure of the mountain where its name is known.

The Glasshouse Mountains are culturally important because of the traditional occupants of the land, they are Jinibara and Gubbi Gubbi people. The Aboriginal people consider the mountain sacred; each has its distinct shape and history.

The Glass House Mountains that flank the coast’s southern end promise a region ripe for Sunshine Moments and Adventure. Pack a picnic and enjoy the sunset in this area. Don’t miss this experience at Sunshine Coast Hinterland.

Eumundi Markets

Visit this market on Wednesdays and Saturdays and find some unique items. The entrance is free and you’ll be amazed at the sheer size of these markets!

“Make it. Bake it. Sew It. Grow it” is their famous slogan. Explore the market and meet the talented people behind the handcrafted furniture, jewelry, and arts.

Lookout for some fresh fruits, vegetables, and baked goods. You can easily grab a bite, taste, and try different kinds of delicacies. All items are guaranteed to be locally made in the region.

This is also the perfect place to get some souvenirs for your Sunshine Coast hinterland visit. Shop and take a little piece of Sunshine Coast Hinterland.

Kondalilla Falls

Montville’s Kondalilla Falls is part of Kondailla National Park and are jointly managed by the aboriginal people called Gubbi Gubbi. The waterfall drops 80 ters into a deep pool and the meaning of its name is ” rushing waters”.

There a also walking tracks for a range of fitness levels in Kondalilla National Park where you can see experience an easy walk of the trail, enjoy a picnic, and capture stunning views of the falls and surrounding mountains.

Reward yourself with a swim in the rock pools where the ​​sparkling cool just screams all year round even in Summer.

Mapleton falls national park

Mapleton Falls is a protected area in the Sunshine Coast hinterland part of Queensland, Australia. The falls are a 120 meters plunge to the pool below and are known to have a spectacular view of the rainforest and open Eucalyp forest.

Enjoy some peaceful moments while lying on your picnic rug. Look out and take in the breathtaking view of the mountain area. Hike the trail and explore the lush rainforest and terrain.

Rainforest discovery centre

The Rainforest discovery center is located at the heart of the Hinterland area of Queensland, Australia. It offers an opportunity for visitors to experience the rainforest up close.

The Centre is the perfect avenue for nature lovers through the exhibits, interactive displays, and walking trails available in nurturing their interest.

Maleny Cheese

Maleny Cheese is a family-owned company that produces artisan cheese and dairy products. The factory is located in the Hinterland area of Queensland, Australia.

They are known for the unique taste of their cheese products and allow visitors to view the process of making these high-quality cheeses. Plus, they can try the cheese first before purchasing it.

Brouhaha Brewery

Brouhaha Brewery is a place tourists should visit. They are committed to producing high-quality beers from sourced ingredients to produce a variety of flavors ranging from hoppy IPAS to refreshing sour. Their products are distributed all over Queensland, Australia.

They are dedicated to producing and serving a satisfying beer drink of your lifetime.

Kenilworth dairies

Kenilworth Dairies is a family-owned business that is located in the scenic Hinterland area of Queensland, Australia. They are specialized in producing dairy products like cheese, milk, yogurt, and cream from natural and locally sourced ingredients.

It is one of the most respected dairy brands in Australia. A spot you should not miss to visit in the Sunshine Coast hinterland.

Kenilworth Bakery

This Bakery is a must-visit destination for those who looking for mouth-watering baked goods. It is well known for its award-winning pies which are made from locally sourced ingredients.

They also serve coffee for those who would like to chill in their cozy area while enjoying their baked treats.

Sit down, relax, and enjoy your treat in this splendid area.

Monica’s Maleny

Eat at Monica’s Maleny You’ll find Monica’s on the main street in Maleny serving up all-day breakfast and lunch 6 days a week. They are also popular for catering events like weddings, conferences, and receptions.

With the stunning view elegant interiors and exceptional service, your event will surely become memorable.

Ginger Factory

A place is fun, exciting, and educational for the whole family. They offer a range of experiences from factory and garden tours, rides, and a variety of food and beverage options.

It is an educational hub for sustainable organic farming particularly that focuses on ginger.

Big Pineapple

Though only a small town, Woombye is home to The Big Pineapple. It is famous for its giant pineapple structure that stands 16 meters tall. They offer fun activities like a train ride, a wildlife park, and a rainforest walk.

Long Apron

One of the finest restaurants in the region and well worth booking for a life-changing. They serve French cuisine and are perfect for a fine dining experience. Indulge in the sumptuous meal and great ambiance

Local produce

Taste your way through producers aplenty scatter the land, with the historic town of Yandina home to the Ginger Factory, and neighboring Nambour laying claim to the much favourite Big Pineapple.

You will surely enjoy the activities, food, drinks and other locally made products they have.

Conclusion

Sunshine Coast Hinterland is worth adding to your itinerary. Whether you are considering a day trip from Brisbane and its surrounds or a longer stay in the area you should have no problem planning your itinerary.

The area’s natural scenery, art galleries, and unique specialty stores attract day trippers from the surrounding areas as well as tourists wanting an alternative escape. Sunshine Coast

Hinterland is renowned for its gorgeous landscape, lovely locals, and incredible food, this iconic spot has been a favourite among Queensland locals for good reason.

Tackle the Sunshine Coast Great Walk Lace up your hiking boots for an epic stroll and adventure through the Hinterland.

Spend the night in the quiet and peaceful sceneries. The Sunshine Coast Hinterland with its rolling hills and abundant wildlife is the perfect trip for nature lovers.

Indulge in some fine dining at fantastic venues from popular personal recommendations. Enjoy the various delicacies and cuisines which is locally made.

A trip to the hinterland wouldn’t be complete without engaging with the locals at a quirky festival. Embrace and enjoy the culture of local people.

Lookout for some nice beaches and waterfalls in each town you drop by and relish the experience.

Sunshine Coast hinterland is a gold find for a vacation not just for adults but also for kids. Perfect for a family getaway.

What are you waiting for, pack your bags and drive to this promising place.

The Bribie Islander Gloss Magazine February 10, 2023 Issue 184

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The Bribie Islander Gloss Magazine December 16, 2022 Issue 181

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Home “Concerts” at Xmas/ New Year..

EVERY YEAR, ABOUT THIS TIME, OUR THOUGHTS TURN TO PRECIOUS FAMILY TIMES (AND MEMORIES) OF CHRISTMAS/ NEW YEAR CELEBRATIONS OVER PAST DECADES AND GENERATIONS…. THE SO-CALLED “GOOD OLD DAYS”.

Having been around well before the advent of TV in the 1950s (shock, horror!) and the intricacies of technology-based celebrations in more recent times (shock, horror again!), I can vouch for the fact that the “good old days” often weren’t what they are “cracked up” to be by some people in some places, nowadays. But the Xmas and New Year family turnouts were worth staying up late for – and the food and amateur entertainment on offer were always worth the price of admission….nothing, of course! Before the advent of TV( and for a while after it ) family sing-songs around the piano, at home(or at someone else’s home) were very much “the thing”. Sometimes, in the more musically talented families, this could stretch to a band (of sorts) with family members joining in on their harmonica(mouth organ), a piano accordion, a guitar, violin, or perhaps even a wind instrument (saxophone, trumpet, etc). Quite often, the sound was more enjoyable than melodious – but the neighbours didn’t get too uptight or overly perturbed about their interrupted sleep. More often than not, they joined in!

As a young blade, I failed as a clarinetist, saxophonist, and guitarist – but eventually made a reasonable job of beating the drums in a dance band (this bought me my first car, at the age of 17, after leaving school). I came from a musical family (one sister a good pianist, another a violinist) and we had family musical evenings “at home”, often, with a couple of State and national champion cornet/trumpet players adding considerably more class to our performances. But the Xmas/ New Year “do’s”, and family musical evenings at other people’s homes were the ones we enjoyed most.

At one such at-home gathering, the family’s DOG (Timmy) would join in our “singing” every time the “mother of the house”(Joan) played certain songs on her piano. (If truth be known, Timmy probably added something worthwhile with his howling…as we weren’t renowned for our singing!).

Even after television entered our loungerooms in the 1950s, these at-home family turnouts continued and held sway over gathering around the TV set to watch other people making all the noise – and singing all the Xmas Carols, etc., properly.

IN PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS

Just this morning, I found myself saying to my daughter, “Do what makes you happy”. Everyone seeks happiness, though what defines happiness can vary from one person to the next. Whilst happiness can be defined differently for us all, it normally involves positive emotions and life satisfaction. For me, happiness is being at peace within myself; I live making a conscious effort to be present on my journey, whether good or what we perceive as the ‘not so pleasant’. When I direct my focus to what brings me joy, finding happiness in the small things, on any given day, can be life-changing, as it enables me to have gratitude, and embrace happiness no matter what the circumstance.

It’s important to feel everything—both the great and not-so-great. It is all a part of life. Identify your feelings, though don’t get attached to that reality. Everything is forever changing, so choose to be happy in every moment, and look for the blessings!

In society today, many are wondering around feeling empty, unfulfilled, and unhappy, feeling “I will be happy when I get this” or “do that”, wanting to fill the void within them. Seeking to fill this so-called ‘void’ with a new car, partner, better house, or the achievement of releasing weight, only to find when they attain the thing of desire, they are happy for a moment, then guess what? … They are back where they started before they achieved what they set out to do.

Why??? Quite simply, because they are seeking outside of themselves. You see, true wealth and happiness really come from within.

When we look for something or someone to make us happy, often the experience is short-term. In order to be truly happy, we must find happiness within ourselves, regardless of conditions.

When we have an uncontrollable appetite for more, our desires multiply and we become blind to what is in front of us. We can get caught up in the cycle of suffering, trying to catch an elusive happiness.

Life happens. If we wait until the conditions are perfect to be happy, we waste precious time. It starts with being at peace within yourself and your surroundings. Enjoy what you have deeply, even the most ordinary moments, because you really don’t know how much they will mean to you in the future Are you feeling empty, unfulfilled, or unhappy? Wanting to find more peace and happiness within yourself and your life? If not now, when? Reach out and give me a call on 0405 361 882 or contact me via Facebook:MariaChristina.Love

Always with love,

Maria Christina x